assalamualaikum..
my apologize first for what i want to said,maybe is a bit personal-point-of view..
some of us said is good to be friend with every one..anywhere we go,try to make a lot of friends..Allah also said in Surah Al-hujurat,ayat 13...
But,from the friends we be friend,there is some time when we are very close to them,(in term of distance),but our heart feel like we are far from them...the sensation is uncertain but the feeling is like not-enough-air-inside..for we want to talk with them,but there is something not right for we cannot act naturally inside..I dont know either i dont understand or what they hid maybe make me a litlle bit uneasy(actually a lot) to start talking with them,then..
i think silence is the most appropiate way to handle it,though some said that silence brought nothing more than unsolved problem..But, i prefer it until certain extent..:D
because,sometimes we must sacrifice our feelings for other's happiness..thinking about others ahead of thinking about ourselves without neglecting our rights..same theory applied in friendship...maybe we have a ship of friend(like in facebook..hehe),but how much we can sacrifice to the one who we called them,friends and vice versa,..
is friend just a friend when we called them as a friend?maybe for this time i can help him,but when i help him,do i hope for any return?i just want him to know the fact,that is the value of friend...whilst other tease you,degrading you,neglecting you,but friends,will be there for you..to help you,sedate you..
maybe friends cant solve your problem,but they will try to make it less problematic,
maybe friends cant take revenge for you,but they try be a good listener..
'i maybe a heart breaker,but i try to be a good listener'
some of our friends has their bad side,and people tend to look at it..friends take all it..but juz be careful to whom we be friend with..
